Ukhuseleko lwabantwana lubaluleke kakhulu kulowo wonke umzali okanye umgcini. Kubalulekile ukugcina izinto eziyingozi, ezinje ngamayeza, iimveliso zokucoca, kunye neekhemikhali, ngaphandle kokufikelela kwabantwana. KulaphoIibhokisi zokupakisha zabantwana ezinganyangekiyoyiza kudlala. Ezi bhokisi zenziwe ngokukodwa zenziwaKunzima kubantwana ukuvula, ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokungenisa ngengozi okanye ukuveza izinto eziyingozi.
Xa usebenzisaIbhokisi yokuphaphazela umntwana, kubalulekile ukulandela isikhokelo esifanelekileyo sokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko oluphezulu kusapho lwakho. Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso ngendlela yokusebenzisa ibhokisi yokupakisha umntwana ngokufanelekileyo:
Khetha ibhokisi yasekunene:
Xa kuthengwaIibhokisi zokupakisha zabantwana ezinganyangekiyoqinisekisa ukubaKhetha ibhokisi edibana nemigangatho yokhuseleko efunekayo. Jonga ukupakisha okutshutshiswa njenge- "Ukunganyangekiswe ngumntwana" kwaye uvavanyelwe kwaye uqinisekisiwe ukuba nzima kubantwana abanokuvula. Oku kuya kukunika uxolo lwengqondo ukwazi ukuba ibhokisi yenzelwe ukubonelela ngelona nqanaba liphezulu lokukhuselwa.
IVenkile yokufikelela:
Nje ukuba unayo ibhokisi yakho yomntwana wakho, kubalulekileyigcine kwindawo ekhuselekileyo nekhuselekileyo engafikeleli ebantwaneni. Oku kunokuba yishelufu ephezulu, iKhabhinethi evalelekileyo, okanye ingubo yengubo yangaphantsi. Ngokugcina ibhokisi ngaphandle kokufikelela, unokuthintela nangakumbi iingozi ezinokubakho okanye ukuboniswa.
Funda imiyalelo:
Ngaphambi kokusebenzisa iIbhokisi yokunyangeka kwabantwana enganyangekiyo, Funda ngononophelo imiyalelo kwaye uziqhelanise nendlela yokuvula. Iibhokisi ezahlukeneyo zinokuba neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuvula, ezinjengokutyhala nokujija, okanye ukucinezela nokutyibilika. Ukuqonda indlela yokuvula ibhokisi ngokufanelekileyo kuya kukuvumela ukuba ufikelele kumxholo xa uzigcina ukhuselekile kubantwana.
Lahla ngokufanelekileyo:
Xa imixholo yebhokisi ayisafuneki, kubalulekile ukulahla ukupakisha ngokufanelekileyo. Oku kunokubandakanya ukususa naziphi na iilebheli okanye ulwazi lomntu kwaye emva koko kurisayike kwakhona okanye ukulahla ibhokisi ngokwemigaqo yendawo. Ngokulahla ibhokisi ngokufanelekileyo, unokuthintela nakuphi na ukuvezwa ngengozi kubantwana okanye kwizilwanyana zasekhaya.
Thumela abanye:
Ukuba uneendwendwe, izalamane, okanye ii-babysitters ekhayeni lakho, kubalulekile ukubafundisa ngokusetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyoIibhokisi zokuziphatha zabantwana ezinganyangekiyo. Qiniseka ukuba ubazise malunga nendawo yeebhokisi kunye nendlela yokuvula nokuzivalela ngokukhuselekileyo. Ngokufundisa abanye, unokuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu ekhayeni lakho uyayazi ukubaluleka kokhuseleko lwabantwana.
Ukuqukumbela, iibhokisi zokupakishwa kwabantwana zisisixhobo esibalulekileyo kwiUkugcina abantwana bakhuselekile kwizinto ezinokubakho. Ngokukhetha ibhokisi yasekunene, ukuyigcina ingafikeleleki, ukufunda imiyalelo, ukuyivala ngokufanelekileyo, ukulahleka kwayo ngokuchanekileyo, kunye nokufundisa abanye, unokusebenzisa kakuhle iibhokisi zabantwana ukukhusela usapho lwakho. Ngokulandela ezi ziKhokelo, unokuwunciphisa umngcipheko wokungenisa ngengozi okanye ukuveza kunye nokudala imeko ekhuselekileyo yabantwana.
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